Virtue
I think vital religion has always suffered when orthodoxy is more regarded than virtue. The scriptures assure me that at the last day we shall not be examined on what we thought but what we did.
~Benjamin Franklin
1. “TEMPERANCE. Eat not to dullness; drink not to elevation.”
2. “SILENCE. Speak not but what may benefit others or yourself; avoid trifling conversation.”
3. “ORDER. Let all your things have their places; let each part of your business have its time.”
4. “RESOLUTION. Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve.”
5. “FRUGALITY. Make no expense but to do good to others or yourself; i.e., waste nothing.”
6. “INDUSTRY. Lose no time; be always employ’d in something useful; cut off all unnecessary actions.”
7. “SINCERITY. Use no hurtful deceit; think innocently and justly, and, if you speak, speak accordingly.”
8. “JUSTICE. Wrong none by doing injuries, or omitting the benefits that are your duty.”
9. “MODERATION. Avoid extremes; forbear resenting injuries so much as you think they deserve.”
10. “CLEANLINESS. Tolerate no uncleanliness in body, cloaths, or habitation.”
11. “TRANQUILLITY. Be not disturbed at trifles, or at accidents common or unavoidable.”
12. “CHASTITY. Rarely use venery but for health or offspring, never to dullness, weakness, or the injury of your own or another’s peace or reputation.”
13. “HUMILITY. Imitate Jesus and Socrates.”
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Avoidance, Agency, and the Hard Work of Engagement

Avoidance rarely looks like fear—it usually looks like tomorrow. Drawing from The Hardiness Effect, Scripture, Viktor Frankl, C.S. Lewis, the Desert Fathers, and timeless Christian wisdom, this field note explores how avoidance diminishes agency and how faithful engagement forms courage, responsibility, and resilient character one decision at a time. Continue reading
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The World That Trains Us

We are shaped long before we realize it. Drawing from The Hardiness Effect, Augustine, James K.A. Smith, Pascal, and Scripture, this field note explores how ordinary habits quietly train our loves—and how intentional practices can retrain our hearts toward what is true, good, and beautiful. Continue reading
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The Practice of Resistance: Stress Adaptation and the Life of the Soul

Stress adaptation is more than a performance idea. Drawing on Paul Taylor and the traditional spiritual disciplines, this CTK essay explores how fasting, silence, Sabbath, simplicity, and prayer use manageable resistance to reveal appetite, noise, hurry, and control, training us to become more available to God under pressure. Continue reading
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The Harder Road: Hercules at the Crossroads and the Path of Aretê

Hercules at the Crossroads gives mythic shape to an ordinary truth: repeated choices become a road, and the road forms us. Drawing on Paul Taylor, C.S. Lewis, John Mark Comer, Brother Lawrence, and Christian wisdom, this CTK essay explores Kakia, Aretê, grace, attention, and the harder path toward human wholeness. Continue reading
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Challenge, Control, Commitment, Connection: A Field Guide for Hardiness

Hardiness has a shape: challenge, control, commitment, and connection. This CTK essay explores Dr. Paul Taylor’s Four Cs as practices for standing steady under pressure, recovering agency, resisting drift, and staying rooted in community. A practical Four-C Audit helps readers move from reflection to action. Continue reading
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The Good Pressure: How Stress Can Build Us Without Breaking Us

Stress is not always the enemy. In the right amount, pressure can strengthen the body, sharpen the mind, and train the soul. This CTK essay explores hormesis, Taylor’s sweet spot of stress, and the wisdom needed to choose challenges that build us without tipping into overload or foolishness. Continue reading
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Digital Distraction and Resistance: Reclaiming Attention in an Age of Noise

Digital distraction is more than wasted time. It is a formation system that trains attention toward interruption, escape, outrage, and impulse. In this CTK essay we explore how broader digital life weakens resistance, why attention matters for wisdom and courage, and offers three simple practices for reclaiming agency. Continue reading
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The Hardiness Effect: Choosing the Harder Road in an Age of Comfort

A CTK-style review of Dr. Paul Taylor’s The Hardiness Effect, exploring how modern comfort trains fragility, how stress can build hardiness, and why the harder road still matters. Blending science, Stoic wisdom, personal reflection, and spiritual insight, this essay treats Taylor’s book as a field guide for resistance. Continue reading

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